THE BEST SOLUTION IN GUIDING THE COMMUNITY WITH CHILDREN
1. Problem-solving process: The best solution
In order to choose the best solution in guiding the community with children, we have had a group discussion and we have agreed to choose the best solution is government and parents. As we know, the government can play a role in overcoming social media issues. This is because the government has the financial resources to implement programs to address social media problems among teenagers. In addition, the government also has the power to enact laws to address social media problems. Government can also conduct various campaigns to address social media problems on government-owned television and radio stations. I also include some articles that the government has done about these issues. The government has the power the disclosure the benefits of limiting social media use as well as a role in overcoming social media issues. This is because the government has the financial resources and organizations that are active to implement programs to solve the problem of social media among teenagers. In addition, the government also has the power to enact laws to address social media issues as we are aware that the laws of society will be more vigilant in the excessive use of social media. In addition, the Government can also run various campaigns to address the problem of social media on television stations as an example of the main channel that is the choice of the people of "TV3 news and also Astro Awani".
And the second solution is parents. Parents should monitor their children in their social media use. This is because the role model closest to them is the parent because the parents are always close to them and are exemplary to their children. We know that social media exposes teenagers to problems that can damage themselves and also damage the values of discipline within themselves as examples of cyberbullying, pornographic videos, and most importantly our children being targeted by hackers. Therefore, parents should expose their children to the pros and cons of society so that they are more careful and responsible. Parents should also teach their children to think before uploading their pictures and also avoid spreading fake news without first investigating. This is in line with the slogan "Think before you post".
We choose the government as the best solution because as we know every person nowadays is able to get their education at least for the secondary school level. Secondary school time is considered to be the main period for teenagers, they get to know many positive things as well as negative things and also some negative habits. They have to face a lot of peer pressure. Therefore we think the solutions stated above have to be implemented by the government in the form of school authorities to give teenagers the best view of why some things are not okay to do. This is because school is the second place teenagers spend more time as we know their lies in the first place. We believe our government has the main responsibility to teach future generations as well as protect them from negative activities too.
We choose parents as the next solution because for every child the parents are their heroes. A child mostly will be raised through the mindset of their parents. Therefore they must be their children’s role models. They have the responsibility to teach them good habits and make sure their mind is full of positive thoughts and positive vibes. Home is the place teenagers mainly spend most of the time. Therefore we believe parents not only have the responsibility to give their children a good lifestyle but they also have the responsibility to shape them into disciplined human beings.
The ways that we used to arrange the information and make it useful are we make a group discussion via google meet and WhatsApp application. Group discussions are very important to find the method and obtain the consent of all group members based on existing problem solutions. In this group discussion, we discuss the previous discussion result on step 3 and pick up the best problem-solving solution to make it useful. More than that, we do some research on the internet and social media to make sure the suggestions that we choose are useful to the reader. After all group members agree with what has been discussed, we distribute the work according to the assigned tasks. Lastly, we combine all work from group members via google document and submit it to the lecturer.
2. Create new idea
We tend to choose the best solution is the role of parents in these problems. There are a lot of advantages we gain when we choose this solution, one of them is that teenagers are closer and more comfortable with their parents. They can always talk about their problems with their parents. Next, parents can monitor more closely about their child’s social media use. Parents can always check their gadget and ask what they are doing with their gadget, what application that they use. Lastly, children understand their upbringing and follow their parents' instructions better than others. Most children listen to their parents' instructions much better from others. When we choose this solution as the best solution, we come out with the T-chart which has the advantages and disadvantages of this solution and another solution. We choose properly the reason behind this solution.
Parents should practice roleplaying with their children so that they are comfortable reacting to teasing and provocations. Parents may play a role-playing game with their child to see how he can deal with a bully. Explain to their child that the bully wants to elicit a response that makes him or her feel powerful, thus expressing emotion and fighting back are exactly what the bully wants. Explain to the child that, while he may not be able to control the bully, he can always control his own reaction. As a result, how he responds in every interaction will either escalate or defuse the situation. No matter how enraged the bully makes him, your youngster must resist becoming "hooked." The greatest method is to maintain one's dignity while allowing the "bully" to maintain his. In other words, to maintain your dignity while retreating from the situation, rather than attacking or demeaning the other person. Simply say something calm like, "You know, I'm just going to disregard that comment.", "I suppose I have something else on my mind right now.", or "No thank you." Then simply walk away. Teach your youngster to count to 10 to be cool, and then say one of these things to the bully. Practice until your child's voice has a confident, strong tone.
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